Easy Elegance is simple, somewhat minimal, tasteful and, well...easy.
As with Elective Frugality there is a "road" to be traveled, a road that leads to freedom, simplicity, abundance, and contentment.
As with any journey, we pack what we need or want to take with us, and go forth leaving behind what is "too heavy" or doesn't serve our journey.
On the road to Elective Frugality we left behind debt and the "gospel" of advertising and marketing propaganda. We stopped enriching CEO's and impoverishing ourselves buying needless stuff. We identified what we truly need when we recognized how much unnecessary stuff we've been spending our hard-earned money on. We became wealthy when we discovered that what we already have is enough. We look instead to relationships, beauty, Nature, "soul-fullness" and free time for fulfillment rather than acquisition and working overtime to pay for it. We unloaded the psychic weight, stress, and indebtedness of what presently constitutes the American "dream", thus simplifying, enriching, and freeing ourselves from a broken system.
Now we set out on the road to Easy Elegance which enhances and uplifts our new abundant and electively frugal life-choices. There is a sacrifice here, too. Not as many, but of a different type. We've already sacrificed debt and enslavement to a broken system, leading us to more peace, freedom, and simplicity. Can any sacrifice be a loss if what we gain is life enriching and freeing?
Instead of a loss, that sacrifice becomes an offering, an oblation, an atonement leading to new and richer, more joyous life.
On this new journey we're taking what we've already learned and adding a new dimension, called Easy Elegance.
If you're already a minimalist or near-minimalist you can skip this next step...de-cluttering!
Clutter - too much needless stuff - depletes energy and costs money. We have to find places to store stuff we're not using - thus we believe we need bigger, more costly homes.
We may decide we need to buy a bunch of nifty boxes to "organize" our clutter. Perhaps we've got so much stuff stored in the garage that our car/s are "driveway orphans" and "curbside waifs".
Perhaps we find ourselves paying for offsite storage. $$$ wasted!
When we have too much stuff we have to expend energy to care for, insure (via the energy of money), and clean it...or clean around it. The energy of too much stuff causes both overt and subliminal stress. People simply function better in uncluttered and ordered environments.
De-cluttering is the first step to Easy Elegance. When clutter is cleared and only the useful and beautiful remains, our homes contribute to, rather than deplete from, our peace of mind. Environmental energy is invigorated rather than diminished. Our homes contribute to our sense of well-being. Our surroundings are more peaceful and we don't spend so much time looking for things. We know what we have and where to find it. Our homes are cleaner, easier to clean, and more likely to be cleaned because less stuff is in the way and less effort is required. Less time cleaning, storing, and organizing stuff means more time to enjoy life, engage in hobbies, and be with loved ones!
When we have less stuff we can focus on the beauty of what we do have.
There are many books and YouTube videos on how to de-clutter. I'll give just the basics here.
Start by taking one room at a time. It's helpful if you can empty each one out completely or leave only the large furnishings that are consistently in use - sofa, chairs, maybe a lamp. Remove games, toys, throws, area rugs. Clean the room for an instant lift in energy. With the room empty, or nearly so, it's also a good time to paint for a fresh look, or new color scheme.
Be sure to remove ALL your tchotchkes. If possible use the room for a couple of days with just it's barest essentials in place. After enjoying your sparse room for a few days, one author (Myquillyn Smith - Cozy Minimalist Home) recommends bringing nothing back into the room smaller than a pineapple because anything smaller isn't essential or useful as decor. This means lamps, perhaps a clock, a vase, a stack of books would be things you'd bring back in - a TV if that's where you watch it.
Simply leave those (smaller than a pineapple) wee, dust-catching, hard to dust around cluttery bits in a box for re-gifting, donating, or selling at a yard sale. Those wee bits gathered into "collections" that occupy every bare surface don't allow the eye to rest on any one thing, but instead to be continually roving from thing to thing causing subliminal stress and restlessness.
Separate excess stuff and bits into three boxes or large trash bags. Designate the boxes/bags for re-gifting, donating, selling. Toss the rest. Don't be afraid to toss damaged stuff unfit for any of the previous venues or that has been hanging around for years awaiting repair. If it occupies space and can't be used because no one wants to take the time to repair it, you may not need it after all. BE MERCILESS!
And, if you haven't used it or worn it in the past year, consider sending it away. If you must replace it at some point our world is filled with abundance and choice. Simply get a better, prettier, more currently fashionable, or less obsolete version. Be RUTHLESS!
Reflect. Think about how you and your family use the newly emptied room. Is there another room in the house that might better fill that need? Is there a room that can fill a need for which it wasn't intended but will serve your household better or more efficiently?
My old farmhouse had two parlors - one to receive visitors and another for family use, and a large eat-in kitchen, but no dining room. I wanted a dining room, but only needed one parlor to use as a living room. The (visitor) parlor, entered into by the front door, had a lovely maple floor and another doorway that went into the kitchen. I made this room serve my needs as an entry hall/dining room with a reclaimed Duncan phyfe dining table placed in its center - the dining chairs rested along the wall until needed.
When guests came for dinner the table leaves were raised and the chairs moved in from the walls.
We can be very creative with our rooms if we look at them and their potential use with new vision.
My personal style runs to shabby chic, French Country, even a wee dose of farm style. Any style you love or choose will shine with less stuff to distract from the effect you wish to achieve.
Decoratively speaking, an effect is best achieved with larger items - those having a greater presence, mass, and "voice" - than with a bunch of small things with little mass, or visual importance.
Way too much stuff! There seems no room for people or for a life to be lived, nor oxygen to be breathed. Cleaning this mess would be a daunting, oft-delayed task.
Not mine, but I like the simple, minimal, yet elegant style.
Perhaps a vintage/modern look appeals more to you. Much can be done with paint, new hardware, visits to the thrift store, and fabric to create a similar look.
Comfy, airy, uncluttered, a room with "room" to think, to be, even to wrestle with the kids - few tchotchkes to get broken here!
Finding your personal style, or honing and refining it with what you already have is the essence of a style you can live and thrive with.
Easy Elegance has no fear of the words, "Re-use, Recycle, Re-purpose, Refurbish, and Repair"!
But what if you just can't part with all or even some of your stuff? Of course, this would be a personal choice and yours to make. However, there is also the energetic facet to consider in harboring lots of excess stuff. By releasing and/or donating the old, the outdated, the unused, you gift another with something he or she really needs, wants, or can use. When you empty out you open up to a universal principle called, The Law of Return, Karma, the Golden Rule. What we release, give away, donate, gift engages this ancient law by creating a "cosmic vacuum". You find that new things, opportunities, boons and blessings come your way. You will gain far more than you give. Or, you can put your tchotchkes in a box and store it someplace. A year later revisit the box. Do you remember all you've put into it? Did you survive just fine without these things taking up visual space? Are you now distanced from them enough that you can give them up? If you simply cannot live without them, return them to their spaces and simply love having them.
In the next post I'll share some ideas for finding your idea of Easy Elegance without spending a lot of money. I'll share what I've done to spark some ideas that you can apply to your own style and the beautiful, useful possessions that made it through the de-cluttering process. Your home will be a place you'll love to be.
I'll suggest a few simple techniques, but nothing that takes an engineering degree, skills in carpentry, or construction. Paint, a little fabric, your own creativity and ideas, and your home will undergo a transformation you'll be proud to call your own....and, it won't cost you a fortune because we've chosen Elective Frugality first!
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Easy Elegance is simple, minimal, achievable, uncluttered and, well, easy.
Instead of layering and draping every surface with Holiday decor for each Season I arrange a single focal point on a console table situated between the living and dining rooms. I don't want to devote my minimal storage to great gobs of Holiday decor and yet I still give a nod to each Season. Ditto outside on my front porch.
Minimal, yet suggestive of Autumn.
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